With Christmas fast approaching, the thought of buying presents is one most parents dread. Even more so if you have to step foot into an alternate universe, where aliens rule or dragons are hunted and slain.  Yet with gaming a popular activity amongst children, chances are at some point you will have to visit a game store, where terms like  “button mashing” or “pwning noobs”(see below for translation), are regularly exchanged. As a result, parents tend to watch with eyes wide as their children whirl through the aisles for their favourite games. But when you want the game to come as a surprise to your kids on Christmas morning, how do you pick the right game that is not only fun but age appropriate too?

Unlike your corner video shop, there are no clear distinctions between video game genres to help you choose the right game for your child.  Often games about raising cute creatures in a world of rainbows sits side-by-side with the latest and greatest war title.   So, it falls to parents – and as I believe it rightly should – to decipher the age-appropriateness code of a game.

There are a few rules I’ve set in place when buying video games for my three children – some I’ve learned the hard way!  Naturally, the classification ratings G, PG, M and MA15+ are a good indicator if a game is age appropriate but I use it only as starting point as no one knows my children better than I do.  For example, whilst a game may be rated G, if one of the levels has a haunted house theme, I might not let my youngest play it as she’s terrified of ghosts at the moment. Also, come next January, we will have an adult rating for video games which means our video game classification system will be more consistent with film and TV, and less confusing for parents (I know many parents who didn’t even realise video games only had a MA15+ rating).

I’ve also found that you will be able to learn a little more about a video game from the blurb and images on the game case, but if I’m still unsure about any elements, I ask my child what a game is like.  Chances are if they haven’t already played it or seen it being played at a friend’s house, they have probably heard something about it from a magazine or website.   Although, like with most things, children will only pick the roses from the bushes so I’ve found it always helps to do my own research about the game too.  There is an incredible abundance of free information about video games available online that your children are no doubt aware of. A quick Google search of a title will reveal game reviews, trailers and even playable demos – all these things are pieces of the puzzle when determining what’s appropriate.

Before I let my children take off on an incredible new adventure, I’ve found out the hard way not so long ago that it’s also important to check if any of that adventure is going to take place in cyberspace.  A PG or M rated game can very quickly turn into an MA15+ game when players have the ability to communicate with each other, often anonymous strangers, during online play.  Even titles that may seem fairly harmless, such as Fifa 2012 – a soccer based game, when paired with the right console can allow players to communicate and verse others online, opening your children up to situations that may require parental supervision.  It’s also possible to download extra content on some games – new weapons, characters, levels – which can significantly alter a game so this is something to also keep a constant eye on.

Far and above these rules, I’ve found the best way to learn about the games your children are playing or requesting in their Christmas stocking is to wrestle the controller from them and to have a go yourself.   There’s nothing like getting up close and personal with a game. You’d even be surprised at how fun racing around a circuit collecting coins to win the Mushroom Cup in Mario Kart 7 can actually be! On-screen battles are a regular occurrence at our house now and it’s become another way for my children and I to spend some quality time together doing something they enjoy.

So don’t dread the Christmas game shopping this year, listen to your children, look out for the ratings but above all do some of your own research into the title before purchasing.

Here’s a little dictionary I have put together to help you decipher some ‘gamer speak’ that may be happening in your house”


  • Pwning:  Dominating an opponent.
  • Noob: An inexperienced, unskilled or new player.
  • Button Mashing: Franticly pushing random buttons in the hopes of pulling off a combo.
  • Combo: An action in game triggered by pressing a series of buttons in a timed sequence.
  • Mod: A Mod or “Modification” is a type of downloadable add-on content created, typically, by the general public. Think changing the appearance of characters to dress them all in tutus or better yet, into hideous zombies.  Mods can also be used to ramp up the power and accuracy of weapons or make your character more agile.

Note  As spokesperson for the Interactive Games & Entertainment Association, Stephanie Brantz features in a number of tutorial videos that help parents set up parental controls on all the major gaming platforms: PlayStation 3, Xbox 360, Wii and PC. These videos can be found on the iGEA’s YouTube channel and Facebook page.

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  • We only have a Wii because they have a lot of kid appropriate games – Mario Kart, wii sports resorts etc.


  • Video games weren’t too popular with my kids. I did notice that a couple of games with child appropriate ratings weren’t always child appropriate


  • It is very hard to buy games for kids, the majority of them are so inappropriate. Where is the good old Alex the kid and mario kart I grew up on.


  • So hard choosing the right game fir kids. You buy the right rated one, get it home and realise it’s still inappropriate. Then it has to disappear


  • Its very good to know! Thanks for sharing this article!


  • Wow very good information here. Thank you very much


  • i liked this article because it was so helpful
    it was also pretty humorous

    • also i have discovered that you need to be wary of the games that are online only. you never know who will be on there interacting with your kids.


  • Thanks for the tips…I had no idea!!


  • these are the hardest things to buy for kids, with the level of violence and gore in them, I am suprised have of them get released


  • Thank you for this, very informative


  • Great information in this article and great advice for parents


  • a very interesting read, full of information


  • thank you sharing this article good read


  • thanks for sharing was a great read


  • Useful for me in the future!


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