miscarriage nearly destroyed me, my heart breaks for anyone that loses a child

Some people mean well but not the consequences of their comments. I know one lady who had a combination 3 misscarriages and stillborn babies. Their 4th baby was premature and was almost ready to go home when she caught a virus in the nursery. She wasn’t strong enough to fight it and passed away within a few hours. Stronger babies were very ill from it but managed to fight it off with antibiotics. The hospital thinks a person visiting a baby spread the virus. None of the staff had it at all.

Dealing with a miscarriage can at times be made worse by well meaning people saying foolish things.
“At least you are young enough to try again”
“Its good that you already have kids”

Weird that people say things like that about a miscarriage …I think some people just dont understand that even though you never got to hold this baby you still loved it with all your heart and soul.

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  • • mom93821 replied
    • 14 Jan 2017 , 6:22 am

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  Exactly – another child does not replace the one that was loved and lost.

Losing a child at any stage or age is the hardest thing for any parent to endure. It breaks something deep inside of you

Miscarriage is one of the most difficult and heartbreaking experiences for a person and a family to endure. It stays with you forever. Reading about others and sharing their experience does help a little with healing.

Sorry to hear of your loss Megan !! Miscarriage is a heartbreaking experience indeed. Take care of yourself and the time to grieve.

I fill sorry about you my dear god bless you

Sorry for your heartbreak, Megan. You will never forget the little one who didn’t make it.

I just can’t imagine what that would feel like. I know I loved both my bubs from the minute I knew they were inside of me so having a miscarriage would be so heartbreaking.