Young mum pleads guilty to locking her two-month-old baby girl in the car so she could get an aromatherapy massage.

The 26-year-old mum confessed to leaving her young daughter alone in the car with the windows up outside the French Beauty Academy on the Gold Coast for nearly 30 minutes, reports 9 news.

Southport Magistrates Court heard two passersby observed the child crying in a distressed state and immediately called triple zero.

When police and fire crews arrived, the mother could not be contacted because she also left her phone inside the car.

The roof had to be cut off the car to rescue the two-month-old, who was rushed to hospital.

When the first time mum finished her massage she was met by police.

Prosecutor Nick Wang told the court when speaking to officers she showed a “complete lack of knowledge of the danger of leaving a child in the car”.

Was PND to blame?

The 26-year-old’s Defence lawyer, Callan Brown, argued the mother was struggling from lack of sleep and post natal depression and it was a “lapse in judgement”.

Magistrate, Kay Philipson, said there was no medical evidence before the court of that and told the mother she is lucky the consequences weren’t more dire.

The mum had no memory of what may have occurred.

The 26-year-old received nine months probation and had no conviction recorded. She will also be required to attend parenting classes.

You may recall the story of a Melbourne Mum whose toddler died after he was unintentionally left in the car, his mum was certain she had dropped him at childcare, she also felt like she needed help for her fatigue but couldn’t ask for it. Read more HERE.

Forgotten baby syndrome

David Diamond, professor of psychology, molecular pharmacology and physiology at the University of South Florida, previously told ABC News that scientific studies of the brain prove that Forgotten Baby Syndrome does in fact exist.

“It’s where the parent completely loses awareness that the child is in the car,” Diamond said. “It’s our brain habit system. It allows you to do things without thinking about it. That plan we have to stop a habit seems to get suppressed. We lose awareness of our plan to interrupt that habit. These different brain systems actually compete against each other.”

Diamond explained that when there’s competition between the brain’s “habit memory system” and its “prospective memory system” and the habit memory system takes over, then Forgotten Baby Syndrome can occur.

Forgotten Baby Syndrome is defined as the failure to remember that a child is in one’s car.

“You sort of go in auto pilot mode,” Diamond said. “It interferes with our prospective memory system and it makes us more likely do something out of habit. There’s a common factor in most of these cases — when you have a have a loss of sleep and stress, we know that it specifically targets the prospective memory system. It’s like forgetting a cup of coffee on the roof. You have every intention of bringing it in, but you don’t.

It’s not that I’m trivializing the life of a child. I’m just making an observation that there are good, attentive, loving parents who lose awareness that their child is in the car. As a scientist, I’m trying to understand how this happens.”

Signs of PND can include…
Panic attacks,
persistent, generalised worry,
development of obsessive or compulsive behaviours,
abrupt mood swings,
feeling constantly tired,
withdrawing from friends,
difficulty focusing,
feeling constantly sad or crying for no reason
having thoughts of death or suicide.

The free National Perinatal Anxiety and Depression Helpline can be reached on 1300 726 306, Monday-Friday 10am-5pm EST. OR contact Lifeline 13 11 14.

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  • I really don’t know what I believe about forgotten baby syndrome
    It may be a “thing” but I think 99% of mums would know that this is not the right thing to do
    Very sad


  • I find this story both astonishing and unbelievable – forgotten baby syndrome or not, how could she, quote …. ” have complete lack of knowledge of the danger of leaving a child in the car”. Absolutely horrific – hope the poor baby recovers and Mum definitely should have got a heftier sentence and should be forced to seek medical help if this is indeed the cause of the situation!


  • Glad the baby is ok.
    If the mum really suffered from a lack of sleep and post natal depression and if she had a “lapse in judgement” as the defense lawyer suggests, is of course the question. God knows. This lady is lucky to come lightly off with 9 months probation.


  • Sleep deprivation is real – but the ability to book, drive and attend a massage – I do wonder?

    • Good to read that the mum has to attend parenting classes – makes good sense.


  • I believe that forgotten baby syndrome is real and occurs, however in this case you probably would have to book a massage and she would have to know she had to take the baby with her. It did say she didn’t seem aware of the consequences, which I find astounding in this day and age.


  • Sleep deprivation sucks but that is inexcusable,


  • Tricky. People can genuinely forget, but that doesn’t seem to be what happened here.


  • When are people going to bloody learn you don’t leave children in the car period!


  • There is no excuse for putting your child in danger.


  • this is what we should be offended by not the colour of a kid’s toy! Everyone knows not to leave kids in cars, there is no excuse!


  • Whatever the reason she is very very lucky her baby is ok. Poor little poppet would have been terrified


  • So weird. What a questionable choice? And she could have brought her child inside while she got the massage!


  • Fair enough claiming forgotten baby syndrome if you leave your kid in the car for an unexpected trip to the supermarket or something. Butthis mum would have known she was going out and surely made arrangements for the baby before this?


  • I don’t know why there is the addition of info about forgotten baby syndrome. Thus mum seemed to know exactly what she was doing. Why not take bub in with her? I hope she’s monitored closely and gets any help needed so something worse doesn’t happen in the future


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