A pregnant mother who suffered severe post-natal depression hanged herself just weeks before she was due to give birth to her second child.

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Kate Willcocks, 36, was found hanging inside a cupboard while 30-weeks pregnant with her second child, a baby boy who also died, reports Daily Mail.

The mother-of-one had battled postnatal depression for five months following the birth of her daughter Iris in 2014.

After weekly therapy sessions and regular contact with nurses, Kate, convinced doctors she was getting better.

Southwark Coroner’s Court recently ruled the occupational therapist committed suicide. The court heard that she had tried to take her own life previously as a ‘cry for help’.

Giving evidence in person, her husband Stuart Willcocks, of Lewisham, said: ‘It was a tough time because she had two incidents prior to her admission to hospital.

‘She had attempted to overdose on her medication.

‘I talked to her about it and we tried to get help, I am not sure she intended to take her own life, I think it was a cry for help.

She had severe depression, she closed in on herself, I last spoke to her on the morning of her death and she was quite distant.

‘She gave no indication that she was going to take her life.’

Stuart said after her initial five months treatment Kate appeared to recover but when she became pregnant her condition deteriorated and she sought help.

Kate became pregnant in January 2016 and was referred to A&E but eventually was referred to the Maudsley psychiatric unit where she received treatment between April and June 2016.

Stuart told the inquest: ‘It was difficult to get back into the NHS we were just referred to A&E.’

‘She had severe postnatal depression with our first born but she recovered from that after about five months.

‘We finally got back in to the NHS and we received specialist help.’

On 12 August last year Kate was found hanging inside a cupboard at her home in Lewisham, south east London, at around 7.15pm.

She had left two handwritten notes which read: ‘Stuart, do not come in, I am sorry.’

Another read: ‘I am sorry for everything, you are amazing, I wish I could turn back time.’

The court heard that Kate had attempted to undergo several terminations including one at 24 weeks but was unable to go through with it.

Consultant psychiatrist, Dr Anupama Yadava, saw Kate between 11 March and 29 July last year and said the mother had been looking forward to the baby.

She said: ‘When I saw her at 28 weeks she was looking forward to the baby, she was looking forward to the things she had to do.’

Senior coroner, Dr Andrew Harris, asked if the 30 week period is recognised as being a particular risk, she replied that the risk of depression was greater.

She said: ‘Fluid intake is increased in the third trimester and it was likely that she would get more depressed.

‘We were very aware that in the third trimester the risk of a relapse are higher, it is a greater risk.’

Dr Yadava said the previous attempts were serious but when she saw Kate on July 29 there was ‘no indication to harm herself or the baby.

Statistics of PND

A recent study found that two in five women aren’t aware that perinatal depression was an illness, and almost 50 per cent of women didn’t know what symptoms to look for.

PANDA’s helpline also reports that 60 per cent of mothers feel like they’re not living up to their own expectations as a parent.

Annual data from PANDA’s National Helpline identifies that nearly 60% of callers are affected by the feeling of not meeting their own expectations as a parent.

The 2016 PANDA facts:
•Three in five people are not aware of perinatal anxiety as an illness and almost half do not know what signs to look for
•Anxiety is at least as common as depression during the perinatal period
•There has been an increase in understanding and compassion in the community with 80% of people believing perinatal depression and anxiety is not a sign of weakness
•92% of people believe that perinatal depression and anxiety does not stop a woman from being a good mother
•Nearly 60% of callers report a lowered mood, with symptoms including hopelessness, lacking motivation and loss of joy, while over 65% report feeling anxious, panicked, agitated, angry and irritable
•Two out of five callers have not been diagnosed with a mental illness, meaning they have ‘slipped through the cracks’ in the system and have only received critical intervention and support via the PANDA Helpline.

Signs can include…

  • Panic attacks,
  • persistent, generalised worry,
  • development of obsessive or compulsive behaviours,
  • abrupt mood swings,
  • feeling constantly tired,
  • withdrawing from friends,
  • difficulty focusing,
  • feeling constantly sad or crying for no reason
  • having thoughts of death or suicide.

The free National Perinatal Anxiety and Depression Helpline can be reached on 1300 726 306, Monday-Friday 10am-5pm EST. OR contact Lifeline 13 11 14.

Image via Daily Mail

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  • that is sad and especially when help is readily available. no-one should feel that sad and broken that suicide is even an option


  • Very sad ! She had two incidents prior to her admission to hospital….so important to take any and every “cry for help” serious !! A nonfatal suicide attempt is the strongest known clinical predictor of eventual suicide ! Pregnancy on it self can be a huge trigger to get out of balance. When I worked on a psychiatric ward we used to admit mums who went through PND/Postnatal Psychosis before purely based on the fact they were pregnant again.


  • It sounds as though it is pretty hard to get more assistance after a break from it. It took from Jan. to Apr. for her to start to get the treatment she desperately needed. She probably deteriorated a lot during the time she was waiting.


  • So sad to read of a mother and child died because of pnd,if only she had of talked to some-one or got the help she needed.


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