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Presbyterian Ladies’ College principal Kate Hadwen said researchers found that sexting has become the new “second base” with teenagers.

The West Australian reports many teens are using sexting as a method to delay physical encounters.

“This is an alarming development regarding young people’s use of technology,” she said.

Dr Hadwen said though she did not condone sexting, which could have serious legal consequences, some young people were still going to feel pressured to do it.

Dr Hadwen said researchers were now starting to label cyber bullying as “cyber aggression” because aggression could be a single incident, even though it had far-reaching consequences, while bullying was a series of incidents.

Teenagers were more likely to seek help for cyberspace problems from parents than teachers.

“So parents need to be skilled up,” Dr Hadwen said. “The sad thing is when they do ask their parents for help, most of the time it’s not helpful.

“A lot of that is around us feeling like we need to control it, so as parents we step in and we decide what should happen, rather than listening to our children and asking them what options they’ve thought of.”

“If we’re looking at prevention, we have to have those conversations with our children and start teaching them safe practices at least by the age of eight,” Dr Hadwen said.

Dr Hadwen also said it was more important to know what children were doing on their computer rather than focusing on where in the house they used their devices.

What is sexting?

Sexting is the sending of provocative or sexual photos, messages or videos. They are generally sent using a mobile phone but can also include posting this type of material online.

While sharing suggestive images or text messages may seem like innocent flirting or be considered funny for young people, sexting can have serious social and legal consequences.

How can I support my child online?

It’s important to discuss the consequences of sexting with your children. If their image has been viewed by others they may be publicly bullied and have sexually inappropriate comments made about them by friends and strangers, including adults.

Office of the Children’s esafety commissioner recommends:
•talk to your children about the potential social, academic, employment and legal implications of posting inappropriate material of themselves or others online
•encourage them to think twice before they post sexualised photos and consider the fact that others might view what they post
•remind them to delete any sexual content they receive from others and avoid forwarding this type of content
•remind them to consider the feelings of others when taking photos and distributing any content by mobile phone or online
•seek professional support if you are worried that your child is vulnerable
•if you are concerned that a sexting incident may be a criminal matter, contact your local police.

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  • Sexting sure is a concerning thing. We sure should talk with our kids about the dangers of placing photographs online or share anything that is private on the computer. And yes we should know what our kids do on the computer and protect them against misuse and bad experiences.

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  • Sexting is certainly quite a concerning issue. I hope that education will help prevention.

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  • I have always stressed to my daughter the importance of integrity, and the importance of “running your own race”. We have also always openly talked about relationships and the importance of not submitting to peer pressure. So far she seems to be on the right track, and I hope it will remain this way.

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  • For sure, sexting is a concern for me, as are nudey pics some people send. What they don’t seem to realise is their texts and pics can be shown, passed around, put on the Internet for everyone to see. They are long term messages and open to so much abuse

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  • Thankfully my daughter is to young but it worries me in regards to my nieces and nephews

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  • All my boys (1 Son and 2 Step Sons) have mobile phones. They live between ours & the other parent’s house respectively. So a great communication aid for us all. I trust my boys and the way we have raised them that it wouldn’t be an issue to begin with and they can approach us about any life subject.

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  • All I can think is thank goodness mobile phones weren’t around when I was a kid. Thankfully, my children are still far too young to have their own mobile phone but when they do, I will be heavily regulating its use and educating them on the do’s and dont’s whilst they have one.

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  • My kids are still too young for this but I’m still very concerned about this and social media and the negative consequences it can have. I think as parents we need to always be on guard and make sure our kids know that they can approach us with anything and that we can help them.

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  • Whatever happened to talking?


    • Exactly but kids know talking can be overheard. Besides you can’t send revolting pictures by just talking.

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