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Avène XeraCalm A.D Lipid-Replenishing Cleansing Oil
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I would recommend this product.
This product reduces itching sensations on my child.
This product hydrates and nourishes my child's skin.
I appreciate that this product comes in eco-friendly packaging and that the formula is biodegradable.
This product does not sting my child's eyes.
Avène XeraCalm A.D Lipid-Replenishing Cleansing Oil :
4.81 out of 5 based on 88 reviews.
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Avène XeraCalm A.D Lipid-Replenishing Cleansing Oil is a very gentle, soap free cleaning base that gently cleanses the skin and protects it against the drying effects of water.

For the Avène XeraCalm A.D Lipid-Replenishing Cleansing Oil review, we’re looking for mums with children from 6 months of age to 3 years to trial this product at home, before sharing their thoughts and opinions with us here.

Avène XeraCalm A.D Lipid-Replenishing Cleansing Oil is to be used as a cleansing product on children suffering from very dry skin. The product helps to soothe itching sensations caused by skin dryness and provides 24h hydration*.

What’s in the soothing formula?

The XeraCalm A.D Cleansing Oil formula was created using a minimum number of ingredients.

A very gentle soap free cleansing base cleanses the skin and protects it against the drying effects of water.

The I-Modulia complex: A result of 12 years of scientific development. It reduces itching sensations and soothes redness caused by skin dryness.

Cer-Omega: Lipids which resemble those found in the skin, they help to repair, nourish and strengthen the skin’s protective film, giving the skin better resistance against external aggressions.

It has so many soothing benefits.Avène XeraCalm A.D Lipid-Replenishing Cleansing Oil

  • Very rich in Thermal Spring Water for its soothing and softening properties.
  • Reduces itching sensations^.
  • Helps to hydrate, nourish and leave a protective film on the skin**.
  • Very good cutaneous tolerance^ – does not sting the eyes.
  • Physiological pH.
  • Formulated to minimise the risk of allergic reaction – non-comedogenic.
  • Fragrance free and soap free.
  • Suitable for newborns, infants, children and adults. For the face, body and scalp. Suitable for use even during flare-ups.

 

How do I use Avène XeraCalm A.D Lipid-Replenishing Cleansing Oil?

Use morning or evening, in the shower, lather onto wet hands before applying to the skin. In the bath, pour the equivalent of 5 pumps into bath water while filling the tub. Rinse thoroughly and gently pat dry.

Where can I purchase Avène XeraCalm A.D Lipid-Replenishing Cleansing Oil?

Avène XeraCalm A.D Lipid-Replenishing Cleansing Oil is available for purchase at Chemist Warehouse.

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*Evaluation of the moisturizing effect over 24 hours compared to an untreated control area after single application on 22 subjects.

**Consumer Use Test Fragrance Free Cleansing Oils on 75 subjects for 1 day. ^Tolerance and efficacy study on 55 subjects (adults, children, infants) under dermatological and pediatric control. 1 to 2 applications/day for 3 weeks. Evaluation of the pruritus after 3 weeks

^Tolerance and efficacy study on 55 subjects (adults, children, infants) under dermatological and paediatric control. 1 to 2 applications/day for 3 weeks. Evaluation of the pruritus after 3 weeks.

Published 13th November 2022

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  • So hydrating & nourishing!

    Such a quality product. It only took 1 week to see a big difference to my baby's skin, everywhere! His skin is remarkably smoother to touch and he is less irradiated, especially on his legs. So happy to have found this product and so is bubs! Will continue to use and help spread the word to other mummys.
    I would recommend this product.
    This product reduces itching sensations on my child.
    This product hydrates and nourishes my child's skin.
    I appreciate that this product comes in eco-friendly packaging and that the formula is biodegradable.
    This product does not sting my child's eyes.

  • Nourishing and hydrating

    I really loved using this cleansing oil on my toddler and myself. My daughter gets little bumps on her skin and it really seemed to help with that. It was also very nourishing on my very dry skin. Packaging was also good, the pump bottle made it easy to use. Would recommend!
    I would recommend this product.
    This product reduces itching sensations on my child.
    This product hydrates and nourishes my child's skin.
    I appreciate that this product comes in eco-friendly packaging and that the formula is biodegradable.
    This product does not sting my child's eyes.

  • During flare-ups, this oil makes bub comfortable and cheerful!

    We have been using this cleansing oil for a couple of weeks and we can already see the difference in our baby’s skin. She has eczema-prone skin and I was initially wary of putting stuff on her skin for fear of making her flare-ups worse. However, whenever we use this cleansing oil, I notice how it gently cleanses my baby’s skin without further stripping its natural oils; leaves her skin soft and supple; and most importantly, makes her comfortable by reducing her skin’s itchiness and soothing its redness.

    It’s amazing how, during flare-ups, she goes from being irritable to cheerful after using this!I further read about the I-Modulia complex and saw the more than decades’ worth of hard work that went into developing it - no wonder this cleansing oil works remarkably well for sensitive skin!

    Apart from being great at dissolving impurities but still leaving the skin nourished, I like the tear-free formula which is equally important for me. Thank you so much for letting us try this wonderful cleansing oil - we simply cannot wait to try other products from the range.
    I would recommend this product.
    This product reduces itching sensations on my child.
    This product hydrates and nourishes my child's skin.
    I appreciate that this product comes in eco-friendly packaging and that the formula is biodegradable.
    This product does not sting my child's eyes.

  • So much smoother for my baby skin

    Avène XeraCalm A.D Lipid-Replenishing Cleansing Oil really works for my baby's skin. So much smoother for my baby's skin and my baby seems to enjoy it when I applied them. Thanks for the good work, Avene!
    I would recommend this product.
    This product reduces itching sensations on my child.
    This product hydrates and nourishes my child's skin.
    I appreciate that this product comes in eco-friendly packaging and that the formula is biodegradable.
    This product does not sting my child's eyes.

  • Wonderful for the whole family

    Beautiful nourishing goodness for the whole family’s skin. I’ve noticed all our skin has greater hydration and smoothness. Love that this product is both soap and fragrance free. My kids ask for it every bath; they love how it foams up. Also I’m pinching it for my shower also. Highly recommend.
    I would recommend this product.
    This product reduces itching sensations on my child.
    This product hydrates and nourishes my child's skin.
    I appreciate that this product comes in eco-friendly packaging and that the formula is biodegradable.
    This product does not sting my child's eyes.

  • Amazing Product

    Avène XeraCalm Cleansing Oil has made an amazing addition to our household. I love that I can use it on my baby, my older child and us adults. This product leaves all of our skin feeling soft, nourished and hydrated. It's easy to use and my kid's love that it bubbles up in the bath. I love that it's fragrance free and soothing to skin.
    I would recommend this product.
    This product reduces itching sensations on my child.
    This product hydrates and nourishes my child's skin.
    I appreciate that this product comes in eco-friendly packaging and that the formula is biodegradable.
    This product does not sting my child's eyes.

  • Great After Winter

    My kids skin is always so dry after winter. This product has really helped clear this up and has nourished their skin. Avène is a brand I personally use for myself and love that there is now something that will be a regular to add to my kids bath routine.
    I would recommend this product.
    This product reduces itching sensations on my child.
    This product hydrates and nourishes my child's skin.
    I appreciate that this product comes in eco-friendly packaging and that the formula is biodegradable.
    This product does not sting my child's eyes.

  • Hydrated skin

    After a couple of washes with this cleansing oil I noticed such a great affect it had on my sons skin. My son suffers from dry skin a lot and this really helped him. I definitely recommend to all mothers with babies who suffer from dry skin. Will definitely buy again.
    I would recommend this product.
    This product reduces itching sensations on my child.
    This product hydrates and nourishes my child's skin.
    I appreciate that this product comes in eco-friendly packaging and that the formula is biodegradable.
    This product does not sting my child's eyes.

  • Great product

    I’ve been using the Avene cleansing oil on my daughter and have noticed a reduction in her dry patches especially behind her knees and elbows. I don’t usually use a wash on her face but thought I’d give this a go. Overall her skin is softer and she doesn’t seem to be itching like she used to. I would recommend this product to others.
    I would recommend this product.
    This product reduces itching sensations on my child.
    This product hydrates and nourishes my child's skin.
    I appreciate that this product comes in eco-friendly packaging and that the formula is biodegradable.
    This product does not sting my child's eyes.

  • Gentle on sensitive skin, nice texture

    The Avène XeraCalm Cleansing Oil felt super gentle on my little one’s skin and left it soft and supple with zero irritation on her sensitive skin. The texture of the oil is very nice and the pump is pretty handy to use.
    I would recommend this product.
    This product reduces itching sensations on my child.
    This product hydrates and nourishes my child's skin.
    I appreciate that this product comes in eco-friendly packaging and that the formula is biodegradable.
    This product does not sting my child's eyes.

  • Amazing textured oil

    My daughter doesn't usually like having any kind of moisturiser or oil applied to have after a bath or shower. I bought this in the hope that it would change. And it has. She loves how it glides on her skin and leaves it feeling soft and silky afterward.
    I would recommend this product.
    This product reduces itching sensations on my child.
    This product hydrates and nourishes my child's skin.
    I appreciate that this product comes in eco-friendly packaging and that the formula is biodegradable.
    This product does not sting my child's eyes.

  • Hello Fresh Baby Skin!

    I love that this product can be added into bath water while filling the tub. After using in the bath for two weeks I have noticed a difference in my kids dry winter skin. Will definitely be buying this product!
    I would recommend this product.
    This product reduces itching sensations on my child.
    This product hydrates and nourishes my child's skin.
    I appreciate that this product comes in eco-friendly packaging and that the formula is biodegradable.
    This product does not sting my child's eyes.

  • So hydrating & nourishing!

    Such a quality product. It only took 1 week to see a big difference to my baby's skin, everywhere! His skin is remarkably smoother to touch and he is less irradiated, especially on his legs. So happy to have found this product and so is bubs! Will continue to use and help spread the word to other mummys.
    I would recommend this product.
    This product reduces itching sensations on my child.
    This product hydrates and nourishes my child's skin.
    I appreciate that this product comes in eco-friendly packaging and that the formula is biodegradable.
    This product does not sting my child's eyes.

  • Top Quality Avène Cleansing Oil for skin.

    I highly recommend this product as I found it was great for my child’s skin. Less itching, helps to hydrate skin and non stinging. It’s perfect for those with sensitive skin, soothes & softens. High in natural ingredients. Gentle soap & sulphate free. Makes skin feel soft and smooth after use.
    I would recommend this product.
    This product reduces itching sensations on my child.
    This product hydrates and nourishes my child's skin.
    I appreciate that this product comes in eco-friendly packaging and that the formula is biodegradable.
    This product does not sting my child's eyes.

  • Amazing results

    The XeraCalm cleansing oil has given us great results. It’s reduced the bumps on my toddlers arms and he’s no longer as dry all over. I’ll be repurchasing this asap! I also really enjoy the smell - not chemically at all. Overall, I’m very happy.
    I would recommend this product.
    This product reduces itching sensations on my child.
    This product hydrates and nourishes my child's skin.
    I appreciate that this product comes in eco-friendly packaging and that the formula is biodegradable.
    This product does not sting my child's eyes.

  • Nourishing and hydrating

    I really loved using this cleansing oil on my toddler and myself. My daughter gets little bumps on her skin and it really seemed to help with that. It was also very nourishing on my very dry skin. Packaging was also good, the pump bottle made it easy to use. Would recommend!
    I would recommend this product.
    This product reduces itching sensations on my child.
    This product hydrates and nourishes my child's skin.
    I appreciate that this product comes in eco-friendly packaging and that the formula is biodegradable.
    This product does not sting my child's eyes.

  • No more dry itchy skin

    I am very happy that finally I found the product that works on my daughter and husband. I have noticed the change after the first use. My daughter and husband has a very dry skin and even after using very good body wash and moisturiser they still get dry itchy skin but thankfully this product has done a great job. Sometimes I add the product on bath and it works perfectly fine.
    I would recommend this product.
    This product reduces itching sensations on my child.
    This product hydrates and nourishes my child's skin.
    I appreciate that this product comes in eco-friendly packaging and that the formula is biodegradable.
    This product does not sting my child's eyes.

  • Fresh and soft

    Suitable for very dry, itchy & eczema prone skin is a real plus and suits all family members. A very gentle fragrance-free oil (although I think adding a scent would be a bonus) that helps nourish the different skin styles to prevent dryness.Leaves skin feeling fresh, soft, less irritated and no tightness felt after oil is rinsed off.
    I would recommend this product.
    This product reduces itching sensations on my child.
    This product hydrates and nourishes my child's skin.
    I appreciate that this product comes in eco-friendly packaging and that the formula is biodegradable.
    This product does not sting my child's eyes.

  • During flare-ups, this oil makes bub comfortable and cheerful!

    We have been using this cleansing oil for a couple of weeks and we can already see the difference in our baby’s skin. She has eczema-prone skin and I was initially wary of putting stuff on her skin for fear of making her flare-ups worse. However, whenever we use this cleansing oil, I notice how it gently cleanses my baby’s skin without further stripping its natural oils; leaves her skin soft and supple; and most importantly, makes her comfortable by reducing her skin’s itchiness and soothing its redness.

    It’s amazing how, during flare-ups, she goes from being irritable to cheerful after using this!I further read about the I-Modulia complex and saw the more than decades’ worth of hard work that went into developing it - no wonder this cleansing oil works remarkably well for sensitive skin!

    Apart from being great at dissolving impurities but still leaving the skin nourished, I like the tear-free formula which is equally important for me. Thank you so much for letting us try this wonderful cleansing oil - we simply cannot wait to try other products from the range.
    I would recommend this product.
    This product reduces itching sensations on my child.
    This product hydrates and nourishes my child's skin.
    I appreciate that this product comes in eco-friendly packaging and that the formula is biodegradable.
    This product does not sting my child's eyes.

  • Very impressed

    My little man has sensitive skin and everything seems to dry his skin out BUT not Avène XeraCalm! We noticed a difference after the first wash. There was no dry, flakey and most importantly itchy skin after washing with this. After a week of using it we noticed how hydrated and smooth our little man’s skin was becoming! Very happy with how this product performs will be purchasing again!
    I would recommend this product.
    This product reduces itching sensations on my child.
    This product hydrates and nourishes my child's skin.
    I appreciate that this product comes in eco-friendly packaging and that the formula is biodegradable.
    This product does not sting my child's eyes.

  • So much smoother for my baby skin

    Avène XeraCalm A.D Lipid-Replenishing Cleansing Oil really works for my baby's skin. So much smoother for my baby's skin and my baby seems to enjoy it when I applied them. Thanks for the good work, Avene!
    I would recommend this product.
    This product reduces itching sensations on my child.
    This product hydrates and nourishes my child's skin.
    I appreciate that this product comes in eco-friendly packaging and that the formula is biodegradable.
    This product does not sting my child's eyes.

  • Less irritation than normal soaps and washes

    Used this by pumping in the bath for my 2 year old. I noticed that where he usually flairs up on his inner arms, was no longer red. I feel like my sons skin was softer after using this both pumped into the bath and as a wash. Happy with this product overall and would use again.
    I would recommend this product.
    This product reduces itching sensations on my child.
    This product hydrates and nourishes my child's skin.
    I appreciate that this product comes in eco-friendly packaging and that the formula is biodegradable.
    This product does not sting my child's eyes.

  • Beautiful

    Avène XeraCalm Cleansing Oil is awesome. Definitely helps with itch and sensitive skin and assists with not drying out the skin. I would definitely buy it again. Very minimal smell which is also nice to not be over powering.
    I would recommend this product.
    This product reduces itching sensations on my child.
    This product hydrates and nourishes my child's skin.
    I appreciate that this product comes in eco-friendly packaging and that the formula is biodegradable.
    This product does not sting my child's eyes.

  • Soap free, so very gentle and nourishing

    Avene Xeracalm replenishing cleansing oil really is amazing and significantly reduced and soothes itching sensation and redness for my son. It feels luxurious and so very gentle on the skin. You can feel the Avene rich thermal spring water goodness. Skin is nourished strengthened and soothing. What a beautiful product, and it’s suited for the whole family. Thanks for the trial. This will be on our Xmas gifting list.
    I would recommend this product.
    This product reduces itching sensations on my child.
    This product hydrates and nourishes my child's skin.
    I appreciate that this product comes in eco-friendly packaging and that the formula is biodegradable.
    This product does not sting my child's eyes.

  • One of the best cleansing oil for the whole family

    The whole family love this Avene Xeracalm replenishing cleansing oil. My daughter has dry skin especially after bath. Applying this oil makes her skin super soft, hydrated and smooth. It really helped reducing itching. This oil is so very gentle on skin. The whole family adore it’s soap free formula, cleansing, soothing and nourishing. Thank you Avene!
    I would recommend this product.
    This product reduces itching sensations on my child.
    This product hydrates and nourishes my child's skin.
    I appreciate that this product comes in eco-friendly packaging and that the formula is biodegradable.
    This product does not sting my child's eyes.

  • Wonderful for the whole family

    Beautiful nourishing goodness for the whole family’s skin. I’ve noticed all our skin has greater hydration and smoothness. Love that this product is both soap and fragrance free. My kids ask for it every bath; they love how it foams up. Also I’m pinching it for my shower also. Highly recommend.
    I would recommend this product.
    This product reduces itching sensations on my child.
    This product hydrates and nourishes my child's skin.
    I appreciate that this product comes in eco-friendly packaging and that the formula is biodegradable.
    This product does not sting my child's eyes.

  • Amazing Product

    Avène XeraCalm Cleansing Oil has made an amazing addition to our household. I love that I can use it on my baby, my older child and us adults. This product leaves all of our skin feeling soft, nourished and hydrated. It's easy to use and my kid's love that it bubbles up in the bath. I love that it's fragrance free and soothing to skin.
    I would recommend this product.
    This product reduces itching sensations on my child.
    This product hydrates and nourishes my child's skin.
    I appreciate that this product comes in eco-friendly packaging and that the formula is biodegradable.
    This product does not sting my child's eyes.

  • Great After Winter

    My kids skin is always so dry after winter. This product has really helped clear this up and has nourished their skin. Avène is a brand I personally use for myself and love that there is now something that will be a regular to add to my kids bath routine.
    I would recommend this product.
    This product reduces itching sensations on my child.
    This product hydrates and nourishes my child's skin.
    I appreciate that this product comes in eco-friendly packaging and that the formula is biodegradable.
    This product does not sting my child's eyes.

  • LOVE LOVE!!

    I love this product. My daughters are not fans of bath time but this has made washing a lot more pleasant without stinging their eyes. With the added bonus of soft silky skin. I would definitely recommend this product.
    I would recommend this product.
    This product reduces itching sensations on my child.
    This product hydrates and nourishes my child's skin.
    I appreciate that this product comes in eco-friendly packaging and that the formula is biodegradable.
    This product does not sting my child's eyes.

  • Loving the results, just after first use!

    Great product, Just after one use my sons dry scalp has come up not dry after the first wash. I’m hoping it continues like this over the next few days, this would be a game changer if it does!! We have tried most products for wash and after wash moisturiser and just struggle with the dry scalp.
    I would recommend this product.
    This product reduces itching sensations on my child.
    This product hydrates and nourishes my child's skin.
    I appreciate that this product comes in eco-friendly packaging and that the formula is biodegradable.
    This product does not sting my child's eyes.
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Article ‘Trust Your Intuition’: How To Advocate For Your Child In Hospital

‘Trust Your Intuition’: How To Advocate For Your Child In Hospital

Mother’s instinct is a funny thing. At home, we trust it without question. But put us in a hospital setting with an unwell child, surrounded by doctors, nurses and monitors, and suddenly we start doubting ourselves.

What if I’m overreacting?
What if I’ve got it wrong?

So we stay quiet, even when we know something just isn’t right with our child. I’ve been there myself – when my usually ‘tough’ son was doubled over with stomach pain. I was told in the emergency department that it probably wasn’t his appendix. But I knew he wouldn’t have begged me to take him to hospital unless it was serious. Because I know him better than anyone. Turns out, it was appendicitis.

It’s a really common place for parents to land. You’re grateful for the care your child is getting, but at the same time, you feel this huge responsibility to speak up if something doesn’t feel right.

Here’s the thing though: that instinct you’re feeling? It matters more than you might think.

Why your gut feeling matters more than you realise

According to Paediatric Nurse Unit Manager, Canterbury Hospital, Leticia Jackson, parents bring something to the hospital that no test or machine ever could.

“Parents often say they ‘just know’ when something isn’t quite right with their child, and in a hospital, that gut feeling is incredibly valuable,” she explains.

Leticia Jackson, Paediatric Nurse Unit Manager, Canterbury Hospital

While medical teams rely on observations, tests and equipment, parents know the little details. The way your child usually smiles. How they react when they’re tired. What’s normal for them.

So when something feels “off”, even if everything looks okay on paper, it can actually be an early warning sign.

“When parents trust those instincts and speak up, this creates a powerful partnership that can sometimes catch a problem before it becomes an emergency,” Leticia says.

Worried about speaking up? You’re not alone

A lot of parents hesitate about advocating for their child.

You don’t want to come across as difficult. You don’t want to question the people caring for your child. And sometimes, you just don’t feel confident enough to push the issue.

Leticia gets it.

“It is completely understandable for parents to feel hesitant,” she says. “No one wants to be seen as difficult or to second-guess the hardworking people caring for their child.”

But here’s a helpful way to look at it: you’re not challenging the medical team, you’re helping them.

Parents are the constant. Staff change shifts, care for multiple patients, and rely on snapshots of information. You’re there the whole time, noticing the subtle changes.

“Our medical team doesn’t view a concerned parent as overreactive, but as a partner,” Leticia explains. “Your voice matters.”

Remember, we know our children better than anyone.

What to do if you’re worried: the Raise It process

If you’re in a NSW public hospital or health service and you’re worried about you or your child’s condition getting worse, there is a clear process you can follow called Raise It.

Raise It is designed to help patients, carers and family members get help fast if they’re worried about a change in their loved one’s condition.

Here’s how it works:

  1. Talk: Start by speaking to a nurse, midwife, doctor or health worker about your concerns.
  2. Ask: Still worried? Ask to speak to the nurse or midwife in charge and request a Clinical Review.
  3. Call: If you’re still concerned, you can escalate further using the Raise It process to get urgent attention from a senior health worker.

You don’t need medical knowledge. You don’t need to be certain. If you feel something isn’t right, or your child is getting worse, Raise It. You just need to speak up.

What should you actually look out for?

Sometimes it’s not one big, obvious sign. It can be small, subtle changes that just don’t sit right.

Things like:

  • Changes in breathing (fast, laboured or noisy)
  • Skin looking pale, mottled, or developing unusual rashes
  • Your child being unusually drowsy, floppy, or hard to wake
  • Confusion or behaviour that’s out of character
  • Pain that isn’t improving with treatment
  • Or simply that feeling that your child is getting worse

And sometimes, it’s just that gut feeling you can’t explain.

That’s enough.

“You are helping us, not bothering us”

If there’s one message Leticia wants parents to take away, it’s that you aren’t bothering the medical team, you’re helping them.

“In my years as a Nurse Unit Manager, I can say with absolute certainty that many critical changes in a child’s condition have been identified first by a parent. While our clinical staff are highly skilled at performing regular observations and interpreting data, parents are the only constant presence who truly know their child’s baseline behaviour, personality, and what is normal for them.

“I have seen numerous instances where a parent’s insistence that their child is “just not themselves” – despite vital signs appearing relatively stable – has prompted a deeper clinical review that uncovered everything from early signs of sepsis to a life-threatening respiratory crisis.”

The Raise It process exists because healthcare teams know how important parents are in keeping children safe.

“Speaking up doesn’t mean you don’t trust the team,” she says. “It means you’re partnering with us to make sure nothing gets missed.”

And if you’re still worried about being judged?

“Whether your concern turns out to be something or nothing, your instinct to raise it is always valid.”

Find out more, visit health.nsw.gov.au/raiseit

Mouths of Mums is proudly working with NSW Health to bring you this important article.

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  • Even as a healthcare professional, when I took my soon to the ED when I was concerned, I felt awkward about speaking up, worried I was making a big deal out of nothing (even though i would never tjink this about a patient’s family if the roles were reversed). The message in this article is so important. Always stick to your guns. Always speak up and advocate for your kids – they can’t do it for themselves.

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  • And honestly, some medical staff are idiots. I vividly remember the night two doctors huddled over my son’s lung x-rays. I hadn’t been allowed to accompany him to have them taken as I was pregnant. They finally told me solemnly that they were preparing to do emergency surgery as there was something in his lungs – “we don’t know what it is, but it’s definitely man made”. I took one look at the x-rays and asked if they’d taken off the battery packs for his cochlear implants, which were pinned to the back of his shirt, before the x-ray. And of course they hadn’t, and of course that’s what appeared to be in his lungs. Honestly!

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  • We need more articles like this one. It is important for us to advocate for ourselves and our loved ones in any situation and work with professionals.

    Reply

  • I have learned many times to always listen to your gut and speak up when you don’t think something is right. This article was a great read, our kids are our world and if we don’t feel they are getting the right help, and we feel it, we need to speak up.

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  • You should never second guess yourself when it comes to yours or your childs health- or anyones for that matter. Go with your thoughts. It is natural to want to protect a loved one especially when it comes to health situations, and the feeling you get when you think you didnt do enough to advocate or fight for them…it is not a kind or nice way to feel. Many people have ended up being heartbroken and picking up pieces for years because of feeling they didnt do enough.

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  • A very good and informative article. I have read so many stories about mums just knowing when things are not right and demanding second and third opinions until they got the right answer. Sometimes mums just know. It is our job as care takers of our families. Listen to your gut!

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  • Years ago, I spoke up for my 14-year-old daughter, but my concerns weren’t fully listened to. I’ve always wished I had pushed harder. She was sent home without much testing, and two days later, she passed away.
    So, if you ever have concerns—no matter how minor—please speak up and keep advocating. Trust your instincts; they are there for a reason.

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  • This is so important for parents to know how to raise it further if they don’t think their child is receiving the medical support they need! I know this article refers to the NSW system but other systems have similar procedures just with different names. I know in QLD it’s called Ryan’s Rule.

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  • It’s so important to follow your gut instincts and express your concerns indeed. I have never hesitated to advocate for my children in various situations and I don’t care what other people think about it. Not all doctors and medical staff appreciate it when you question them, I’ve experienced that it may result in angry indignant responses.

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  • How true this is! While nurses and doctors are the medical professionals doing their job on the daily, we know our children better than anyone and what is ‘normal’ for them. I would always speak up if I had noticed any changes in my child’s health and encourage other parents to do so too. No question is silly!

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  • This really is such an important issue and a good topic to discuss with people, I am often surprised that people are worried about being judged. This is not something I care about; the priority is for the care and health of everyone is my family. Parents know their children and need to work with health professionals for the best outcomes for their children.

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  • This is such an important issue to raise, and no one should ever feel ashamed, nervous or that they are being OTT for advocating for their kids, themselves or loves ones in hospital. In QLD we have Ryan’s Rule. A three step process where your concern will be escalated if they believe the patients condition isn’t improving or is worsening.

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  • I have never been afraid to advocate for my children and partner and extended family and also friends. It is so important to listen and to trust intuition. When people have not listened, I have persevered and kept on with insisting on care and making sure they truly listened and took action.

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