I am not an online marketing professional, nor am I a social media expert.

Yet, I have realised how important it is to be connected on many different platforms, especially when you are a work-at-home Mum. In this blog, I share my thoughts on keeping your sanity and credibility whilst building and maintaining your online presence.

There are numerous social media sites – all with different audiences and purposes. There are quite a few conferencing and webinar tools at your fingertips to choose from. Someone suggested that short videos are the next best ways to connect. Then, you must blog and make sure your website is representing your brand in a way that excites and invites people to do business with you. Not to mention, at some point you also have to do the work that actually makes you money.

You could spend most of your working hours updating profiles, writing posts, hash tagging, commenting, liking and uploading. You could employ or contract someone to do it. But you need to ask yourself what will bring you the most money, build your online and business profile/credibility, and what tools are most effective for your business. Then add the question, “How do I balance it all so that I am not sitting on the couch at night with my family still doing ‘work’ tasks?

I got stuck in this cycle of trying to cover all platforms – posting and blogging everywhere and all hours of the day. I spent hours attempting to make and upload that natural, off the cuff, three-minute video of me just saying hi to the watchers and sharing a thought that would change someone’s life! A blog would take at least two hours by the time I wrote it, edited it, uploaded it, found the right picture and then shared link. I would wake up in the morning, go for my run then spend 20 minutes checking social media before breakfast! By the end of each working day at least half of it was spent online jumping from one site to another. And if I went to a seminar that was teaching me something about an online platform, you were lucky if you saw me for the next couple of days as I applied everything I had learnt with the promise of super exposure and business opportunities.

What changed?

I took some time off and saw that my business and profile didn’t disappear just because I wasn’t all over it every day. I saw that there is true value in being connected, yet the value comes from a balanced, healthy and strategic approach. I thought about who was my online audience – and what they wanted to see so they could connect with my products, my professional services and me. I also looked, very closely, at which platforms were more likely to convert into sales, create brand awareness, and which were just ‘social’.

So I came up with my plan.

I investigated the most engaging posts for different social media platforms were and actioned that. The platforms that serve my business and book best are newsletters, Facebook, LinkedIn, Instagram and Twitter. I give no more than one hour per day upkeeping my online presence. I make face to face contact and phone calls my priority. I have learnt to use Zoom to conference and webinar. I reuse and recycle a lot of my writing so that I can cover many options and platforms with little effort. I write for businesses that have huge followings online, so that I increase my profile organically through that. I chat (face to face or on the phone) to a lot to my friends who are online-savvy or doing something that I find impressive, and discover what I could be doing differently, and how to do it without paying someone.

To be successful in the business world, you have to be connecting with your audience on a regular basis. This has always been the case; it is just now we have many more ways online to increase our exposure for little or no cost, that work well around our children. The trick is to manage your virtual world so that it is still making you money, building your profile, and giving you real leads. You also have to manage your time and the energy you give to it so that it does not create a black hole of lost productivity.

In business, know you and a bit of like you can come by online connecting – but trust you may need a bit more work and contact to make that sale.

I like to check in and ask myself often, “Are my online messages and profiles congruent to how I introduce myself to a room of people, have a trade table at an event, meet a prospective client for lunch or attend a business meeting?” I will always look for better ways of doing things – I think as the world gets more connected through a screen, being better than your competition means keeping your message clear, your integrity intact and to balance it all out with time away from the devices and connecting face to face.

How can you make your online presence and activities more clear, meaningful and profitable, and less time wasting?  How can you balance your online activities with family activities in a more fulfilling way? Let us know in the comments.

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  • Great article, it is all about researching and learning and finding what works for you.


  • An interesting article full of lots of great tips and tricks. Very helpful yo some I’m sure


  • Thanks for such an informative article, full of great tips.


  • I suppose when you have a business you set these kind of goals and need to review them all the time.


  • Ah good on her, computers are the way of the future.


  • Thanks for sharing such an interesting article.


  • An intersting article,thanks so much!


  • Thank you for your interesting article – I am a mum of two school ages girls who works her “day job” while the kids are at school then I work my ” home based business” after working my dag job fitting it in around family schedules. I found your article interesting and helpful.

    My goal for next year is to increase my social media presence (whilst balancing all of the above) – hopefully with just the simply strategy of being more organised in all aspects of my life!


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