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So the time has come for your teen’s first interview (or maybe another slightly older child that is yet to fly from the nest) and there are so many ways you can help them get that gig.

First reassure your child that interviews can be scary and it’s normal to get a nervous, no matter how many interviews people go to or what age, nerves almost always tag along.

Now it’s time to get into their wardrobe! Now don’t get distracted by doing a clean out, let them guide you. This is an exciting time as for most teens as this is their first taste of adulthood and responsibility so just like when they were a child, let them put on a fashion parade. Now parents, be gentle, some teens only have seen “dressing up” clothes on Gossip Girl or Bondi Hipsters so their impression of “professional wear” may need a little coaching. Especially girls and their skirt lengths!

Talk them through how important their appearance, cleanliness and presentation is and how it forms opinions of them. Sad but true and best they hear it from you now and not in a performance review where I have seen some real esteem damaging comments be thrown around. This is all new for them.

Now we have the outfit and a little mindset work done, keep up the excitement with asking them about why they want this job, what it will mean for them (ie. Freedom, money, savings, meet new friends, get away from their younger brother) and what their goals are – this is not only great for bonding but keep them inspired because (big spoiler alert) they will lose that excitement in time so having this information under your belt will feed great conversation to get them motivated and to work on time in the future.

Now it’s time for the really critical part: practice!

So make up that you are the interviewer. Have fun with it, put a business jacket on, sit behind a table in a closed-door room if possible and don’t break character (I’m sure they will think you are a dag but trust me, I have seen how valuable this practice truly is).

Ask your teen the questions the interviewer may ask, things like “Why do you want to work here?” “What similar experience do you have?” “What are your biggest strengths?”

These questions can be hard to answer for a first time employee but give them examples to use from work experience, volunteering or events they have been apart of in school, the community or work they do around the house for you.

Help them with their communication; make a fun little buzz noise every time they say “um” or “like” too many times to raise their awareness to these word habits. Teach them about the non-verbal communication also; such as: smiling, eye contact, good posture, clear pronunciation, and all the elements to make a great first impression through the whole interview.

Now the rest is up to them (ensuring that they get there on time). It’s an exciting moment and one that will open many doors as they grow, professionally and emotionally.

I would love to hear how the experience, interview and job success goes so be in contact.

  • My daughters first job was with our next door neighbour, who had a flower farm. Then the owner of the local takeaway went to the school and asked for recommendations from the teachers of students who could be relied on to work. The teachers put my daughters name forward, job number two. Once you’ve had work experience, it’s easier to move onto your next job. My daughter then had to move for school and was offered jobs at McDonalds and Target. Her next job was after blitzing an aged care course. So she’s doing well.
    My son joined the army, was injured and medically discharged. Then he was out in the cold. 21, no work experience, schooling to year 12 and an injury. Not good

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  • Stay positive and you will be rewarded.

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  • Persistence and confidence usually prevail

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  • great tips, getting into the job market is so hard

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  • thank you sharing this article good read

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  • This is a very interesting article

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  • An interesting read – thanks for sharing

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  • Great read, thanks for the share

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  • thanks for sharing was a great read

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  • Very useful – thanks so much. Will come in handy with my teens

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  • Some very good advice – thanks for sharing.

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  • Great tips. Maybe ask their friends about frequently asked questions and how to approach them.

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  • Experience from parents can help too for teen to get job and past interview.

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  • Some great tips from this article – thank you :)

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  • great article, thanks for sharing

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