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These fabulous children’s books can make discussing personal safety and emotional health issues a little easier for us and more importantly help children navigate their sometimes confusing world.

Keeping kids safe from Sexual Abuse

Some Secrets Should Never Be Kept by Jayneen Sanders.
Some Secrets Should Never Be Kept is a beautifully illustrated picture book that sensitively broaches the subject of keeping our children safe from inappropriate touch. We te
ach water safety and road safety but how do we teach ‘body safety’ to young children in a way that is neither frightening nor confronting? This book is an invaluable tool for parents, caregivers, teachers and health professionals. The comprehensive notes to the reader and discussion questions at the back of the book support both the reader and the child when discussing the story. Suitable for ages 3 to 12 years. A free ‘body safety’ song, supporting teacher’s pack and other useful resources are also available from here.

My Body Belongs to Me by Jill Starishevsky
Without being taught about body boundaries, a child may be too young to understand when abuse is happening—or that it’s wrong. This straightforward, gentle book offers a tool parents, teachers, and counselors can use to help children feel, be, and stay safe. The rhyming story and simple, friendly illustrations provide a way to sensitively share and discuss the topic, guiding young children to understand that their private parts belong to them alone. The overriding message of My Body Belongs to Me is that if someone touches your private parts, tell your mum, your dad, your teacher, or another safe adult.

Sex Education

It’s Not the Stork! by Robie H. Harris
Young children are curious about almost everything, especially their bodies. And young children are not afraid to ask questions. What makes me a girl? What makes me a boy? Why are some parts of girls’ and boys’ bodies the same and why are some parts different? How was I made? Where do babies come from? Is it true that a stork brings babies to mummies and daddies? It’s Not The Stork! helps answer these endless and perfectly normal questions that preschool, kindergarten, and early elementary school children ask about how they began.

 

Where Did I Come From? by Peter Mayle
Where Did I Come From? covers all the basic facts from love-making, orgasm, conception and growth inside the womb, through to the actual birth day. It names all the names and shows all the important parts of the body. Where Did I Come From? tells the facts of life as they are – without any nonsense, and in a way that children can understand and parents enjoy.

 

 

Grief/Death

A Place in my Heart — Understanding Bereavement by Annette Aubrey
Through rhyming, the author deals sensitively with bereavement reassuring young readers that emotions they may be experiencing are ‘normal’ and shared by others.

Badger’s Parting Gifts by Susan Varley
Badger is so old that he knows he will soon die. He tries to prepare his friends for this event, but when he does die, they are still grief-stricken. Gradually they come to terms with their grief by remembering all the practical things Badger taught them, and so Badger lives on in his friends’ memories of him.

Isaac and the Red Jumper by Amanda Seyderhelm
Picture book for 5-12 years about child bereavement. To be read by a parent, counsellor, teacher to a bereaved child. Full colour illustrations, and a list of questions at the back of the book to help children heal their grief process using creative activities. Isaac is heartbroken when his best friend Freddie dies. His house freezes, and his red jumper turns grey with grief. His friends try to console him but it’s only after Isaac receives a special visit from Freddie that he understands love and friendship last forever, and are alive in spirit. Isaac and the Red Jumper will appeal to anyone who is bereaved, and is looking for a creative way to heal. Amanda Seyderhelm is a PTUK Certified Therapeutic Play Practitioner.

Mental Illness

Can I Catch It Like a Cold? By Centre for Addiction & Mental Health
In simple, straightforward language, the book explains what depression is and how it is treated. It also prepares a child for working with a helping professional. And perhaps most important, it reassures a child that he or she is not alone.

 

 

Divorce/Separation


Mum and Dad Glue by Kes Gray
A little boy tries to find a pot of parent glue to stick his mum and dad back together. His parents have come undone and he wants to mend their marriage, stick their smiles back on and make them better. This rhyming story is brilliantly told with a powerful message that even though his parents may be broken, their love for him is not.

Dinosaurs Divorce by Laurene Krasny Brown
Dinosaurs Divorce will help children understand divorce and what it means.

Trauma/Violence/Anxiety

How Are You Feeling Today Baby Bear? by Jane Evans
A gentle story to help children aged 2 to 6 years who have lived with violence in their home. Baby Bear lives in a home with the Big Bears, and loves to chase butterflies and make mud pies – they make Baby Bear’s tummy fill with sunshine. Then, one night, Baby Bear hears a big storm downstairs in the house and in the morning, Baby Bear’s tummy starts to feel grey and rainy. How will such a small bear cope with these big new feelings? This sensitive, charming storybook is written to help children who have lived with violence at home to begin to explore and name their feelings. Accompanied by notes for adults on how to use each page of the story to start conversations, it also features fun games and activities to help to understand and express difficult emotions. It will be a useful book for social workers, counsellors, domestic violence workers and all grown-ups working with children.

A Terrible Thing Happened by Margaret Holmes
This gently told and tenderly illustrated story is for children who have witnessed any kind of violent or traumatic episode, including physical abuse, school or gang violence, accidents, homicide, suicide, and natural disasters such as floods or fire. An afterword by Sasha J. Mudlaff written for parents and other caregivers offers extensive suggestions for helping traumatised children, including a list of other sources that focus on specific events. Note from Jane: I have used this book many times with children who are very young up to 10 to 11 years as a way to let them fill in the blanks using gentle suggestions of possible feelings, often helping children who lack the names for their unprocessed feelings. The book can also be used with children who are dealing with grief.

The Huge Bag of Worries by Virginia Ironside
Wherever Jenny goes, her worries follow her – in a big blue bag. They are there when she goes swimming, when she is watching TV, and even when she is in the lavatory. Jenny decides they will have to go. But who can help her? Note from Jane: A great book to use with anxious children as it helps sort worries through and make them seem more manageable. It emphasizes that we all have worries and what to do about them. I use this with older children too, as it always makes me get my own worries in perspective!

When Worries Get Too Big by Kari Dunn Buron
More than any other issue, ‘losing control’ can cause major problems for children. Through the irresistible character of Nicholas, this book gives young children an opportunity to explore with parents or teachers their own feelings as they react to events in their daily lives while learning some useful relaxation techniques. Children who use the simple strategies presented in this charming book, illustrated by the author, will find themselves relaxed and ready to work or play.

 

Sitting Still Like a Frog (mindfulness) by Eline Snell
Simple mindfulness practices to help your child deal with anxiety, improve concentration and handle difficult emotions. Complied jointly by Jayneen Sanders and Jane Evans.  Jayneen Sanders is a teacher, author, mother of three teenage daughters and an active advocate for sexual abuse prevention education both in the home and in schools. Jane Evans is a trainer, public speaker, author and Mum. She has worked with families affected by a range of complex needs and trauma of 20 years and is committed to support everyone in raising children using only kindness.

  • I am so happy to see that this type of resource is available. We should do everything to encourage our children to talk. I have seen the results of abuse and secrets first hand and how it impacts families for decades.

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  • I think a lot of kids would benefit from reading these books. They should be made available in school libraries so they can read them without feeling pressure from parents.

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  • Fantastic list thank you, with enough detail to know if you need them

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  • Thanks for sharing this. Great books

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  • What a great way to introduce kids to serious life affecting topics, through books! I love them

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  • Thanks so much for this fabulous post. While I have found some of these books, others look great.. Iwill look out for a copy of The Huge Bag of Worries

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  • Thank you for this list, it really is helpful.

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  • This is a really handy list thank you! I’m currently looking for some good books about wearing glasses for my 4 year old too – hard to find.


    • Same here !! Thankyou ‘mouth of mums’ :) will definitely keep this post for future reference.

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  • I never knew books like this existed. I knew about story books for potty training and going to bed existed. Good to know that there is appropriate materials out there for these topics.

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  • These can be difficult subjects to broach with children. Thanks for the list of books to help.

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  • What a great collection of books. Thanks for sharing with us!

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  • So important. Thank you for this article and book suggestions.

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  • Thank you so much for this wonderful list, these books will help many a parent out I am sure. And all these areas need to be brought to the forefront. thanx for sharing and caring.

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  • I think these kinds of books can communicate things to our children so well but with exception of the “my body” books I wouldn’t introduce them unless there was an issue there. I feel like sometimes we’re a bit too quick to try and fix a problem that doesn’t exist & sometimes our kids are blissfully naive to a lot of things we are afraid of.

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  • Bookmarking this list. So comprehensive for different issues. Will be looking at your book.

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