Remember when your mum used to say, “Go play” and you either went outside to shoot some hoops or went to your room and created a castle with your Legos?
Those of us born before 1980 may have vivid recollections of that type of scene, but for today’s child, there are many distractions not allowing for that kind of simplicity, thanks to the world of technology and no more so than an iPad!
If you were a mum of young children in the 70’s you may have feared the accusation of letting your kids watch too much television. Today it is a much more complicated world than it was in the 70’s or 80’s and the various distractions include laptops, gaming devices, smartphones, and the so easy to handle and operate iPad.
If your child was born after 1980 these gadgets seem to be more or less a birthright, but how can you tell if your child is spending too much time mousing, clicking, pointing and staring at an illuminated screen.
Warning signs your child is spending too much time on electronic devices:
- Lack of interest in other activities.
- Distracted or constantly talking about being online.
- Demonstrating mood-swings or displaying disagreeable behaviour.
- Upset or thwarted if he or she can’t get online.
If your child is exhibiting one or more of the signs, it may be time to make a concerted effort to make sure your child is leading a well-balanced life.
Five fun and healthy activities for your child:
1. Playing outdoors
If you have a yard invest in some sturdy and safe outdoor play equipment. Plan family outdoor games and activities, like biking or tennis.
2. Indoor play
If you have the room in your home you may want to consider setting up a playroom with indoor play equipment. If there is no place for that, you may have a play centre near your home. Many McDonald’s also have impressive indoor playgrounds. A playground is not just the place in which children can play and have fun, it is also a place for children to socialise with their peers.
3. Read to your child or encourage them to read to you
We all know there are many benefits one can get from reading. Therefore, reading to your child is definitely one of the best activities you can do. You can make reading more fun for them by reading their favourite ones.
And while you read, make sure you act out stories. Children love sound effects more than anything.
4. Play board games, and many others
There are new and exciting board games all the time, but depending on your child’s age there is nothing wrong with some of the classics like Monopoly or Snakes and Ladders, and don’t forget about card games and charades. There are plenty of fun games to play.
5. Creative activities
Make sure you have a good supply of crafts. What child doesn’t love to colour? Cooking and baking also challenges a child’s creativity and makes them feel helpful.
We all want happy, well-rounded children, this doesn’t mean you have to forbid your child to play with the iPad.
There are parental controls that limit your child’s time on the device and also the content they view.
Remember also, they can download books and play games that help develop fine motor skills. Encouraging play that promotes imagination and physical fitness is bound to make for a happier child and a happier family.
Do you have any other tips for other activities. Please share in the comments below.
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