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A mum has lashed out after her six-year-old daughter was given the part of ‘someone’s wife’ in the school’s Christmas nativity play.

She says she’s considering calling out the school for her daughter’s role as the ‘Innkeeper’s Wife’.

“Normally I am pretty relaxed about all things school, and I certainly feel sorry for the teachers’ workloads, but come on people,” she explained on Mumsnet.

“No woman should be identified by her relationship to a man? Surely. I’m itching to call them out on this. Itching. This is how casual everyday feminism gets perpetuated by people not calling people out on this stuff. It just bothers me that in the core learning place for our kids, this stuff just goes on with no one batting an eyelid.”

She asked whether she’s being unreasonable to be outraged by the casting, saying she’s ‘not that parent’ but that the whole situation bothers her.

“I have never got anywhere near saying anything to a teacher along these lines before. I haven’t ever seen such a casually popped in bit of inequality before.”

Her post was met with hundreds of comments, most of which said they couldn’t see the issue, particularly when the play is set more than 2000 years ago ‘when women were somebody’s wife’.

“I am itching to tell you that you are being unbelievably ridiculous,” replied one person.

“Good grief. I feel sorry for teachers sometimes having to manage parents like this,” said another.

What do you think? What would you do if this is role your child was given? Let us know in the comments below. 

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  • I honestly wouldn’t have thought twice about this…

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  • I’m not seeing an issue. People these days just love to complain and be offended

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  • Well what’s the alternative name? I mean if she was the innkeepers wife then what else should she be called? I mean you could call her by the name but then no one would know who she was? Bit ridiculous really

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  • As long as she was taking partnof it…

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  • Seriously, there are much bigger issues in the world.

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  • I’ve seen boys having to play the part of wives because there weren’t enough girls. What would she’d think if her daughter was cast as the innkeeper and another girl played the innkeeper’s wife?

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  • I’m just puzzled people can get upset about such a thing. Most likely the daughter hasn’t a clue why her mum is so upset

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  • its a play and there was going to be roles. i think communication with the school would have been a starter if you had an issue

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  • It wouldn’t have bothered me. And if her daughter has no issue with it, don’t make it one.

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  • Ohhh dear! That’s how it was then. Not ideal, but if you change it, you are re-writing and mis-representing what to believers is history. And it smacks of over-wokeness. Shudder…..dont be that parent, please!!!

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  • Utterly ridiculous! Clearly, she’s never actually read the bible where it’s common for women to be referred to that way I.e. Lot’s wife. The inn-keeper’s wife isn’t actually mentioned at all in the bible. Clearly they just needed an extra role for her daughter to fill. She should be pleased they made an effort to include her.

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  • She is insane. She is that parent.

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  • Can you imagine how the child feels. She has a role in the school play and mum makes these comments that will eventually make her stop wanting to be in the school plays. It’s so sad that kids can’t enjoy the simple things in life and enjoy life itself. Sooner or later the daughter wont be picked for a play or wont want to do plays at all because of her mums behaviour. Would mum react like this if her child had a part as a sheep?

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  • Would she be lashing out if her daughter was cast as Mary..I think NOT. I feel this is a cause of sour grapes. Turn your grapes into wine and take a chill pill sister.

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  • Would this woman lash out if her daughter was casted as Mary …I think not. Sour grapes here ..she is just out to cause trouble.

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